Who Dares Wins
The motto represents the importance of courage, resourcefulness and the willingness to try new ways of successfully accomplishing missions that are thought to be impossible.
I remember when I was much younger I came across a book in a 50cent store that was about the SAS. Specifically the british SAS, there moto “who dares wins” really struck a cord in my heart then.
It is interesting that at this time in my life the thought just crossed my mind. Though this motto should be applied through out my life, I’d like to discuss a specific application…in my relationship.
I feel significantly challenged to move on. After dating for a year plus one gets comfortable. You develop emotional and spiritual roots in someone. It’s one of the all or nothing investments, the things were you walk in blind give yourelf to another selflessly in the hope that the other person feels the same way about you.
The sacrifices that one undertakes to involve someone else in one’s life are imense. But this is done freely with no obvious effort. It’s like the cosmos has converged to make everything seem perfect.
I feel like my soul has departed and I now look about me into what appears vacant. What does life have for me. OK…fine…I have a decent job, have a decent house….live an above average life…one would expect this to be fulfilling. To me it is not. It forms only part of the puzzle.
Perharps I’m plagued playing this game of life. No I don’t believe that. Like God I do not roll the dice or believe in coincidences. I know that I determined this course through which I sail. I’m desparately searching for the meaning in my life and I’d love to have someone special to share this with.
I’ve been hurt before. I’ve felt worse than I feel right now (been close to death because of love). I think this has something about my age. I’m growing old and yet I have not gotten a life partner. Too many experiments, no successful outcomes.
I must get passed this…though I think I’ve little self belief…My self doubt appears to the biggest stumbling block in my life at the moment. I have often been told that I luck self confidence. In my youth it was expressed by intense shyness, now it has been replaced by humour.
This is an impossible mission, to get what I want out of life…out of love….I must dare to push my self passed the reeds and the bog….I must claw inch by inch towards what I want. For this is my commitment to myself to dare upon the face of self-doubt. For I know WHOEVER DARES WINS.
I remember when I was much younger I came across a book in a 50cent store that was about the SAS. Specifically the british SAS, there moto “who dares wins” really struck a cord in my heart then.
It is interesting that at this time in my life the thought just crossed my mind. Though this motto should be applied through out my life, I’d like to discuss a specific application…in my relationship.
I feel significantly challenged to move on. After dating for a year plus one gets comfortable. You develop emotional and spiritual roots in someone. It’s one of the all or nothing investments, the things were you walk in blind give yourelf to another selflessly in the hope that the other person feels the same way about you.
The sacrifices that one undertakes to involve someone else in one’s life are imense. But this is done freely with no obvious effort. It’s like the cosmos has converged to make everything seem perfect.
I feel like my soul has departed and I now look about me into what appears vacant. What does life have for me. OK…fine…I have a decent job, have a decent house….live an above average life…one would expect this to be fulfilling. To me it is not. It forms only part of the puzzle.
Perharps I’m plagued playing this game of life. No I don’t believe that. Like God I do not roll the dice or believe in coincidences. I know that I determined this course through which I sail. I’m desparately searching for the meaning in my life and I’d love to have someone special to share this with.
I’ve been hurt before. I’ve felt worse than I feel right now (been close to death because of love). I think this has something about my age. I’m growing old and yet I have not gotten a life partner. Too many experiments, no successful outcomes.
I must get passed this…though I think I’ve little self belief…My self doubt appears to the biggest stumbling block in my life at the moment. I have often been told that I luck self confidence. In my youth it was expressed by intense shyness, now it has been replaced by humour.
This is an impossible mission, to get what I want out of life…out of love….I must dare to push my self passed the reeds and the bog….I must claw inch by inch towards what I want. For this is my commitment to myself to dare upon the face of self-doubt. For I know WHOEVER DARES WINS.
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