Stranger in my house
Yesterday I received a series of texts which ended in one: “Switi si u come pick me up leo (today) nit pliz.” I went to pick her up. I thought she’d perhaps carry an over night bag but I was in for a shock. She had several bags….I was in too much shock to ask what it was all about.
Anyway I think I have an inability to deal with high tension emotional situations. A friend of mine suggested that I sit back and evaluate the situation. Well I did that last night and I think this will be my course of action:
•Determine her motives
•Ask that she clears most of her things from my house
•Determine if a relationship/friendship is feasible
•Make it clear to her about what I want
I realize right now that I’m a romantic and believe too much in fleeting emotions. That puts me in a situation where I’m easily taken advantage of. I think this is the situation that I’m in right now. Beth seems to be more emotionally intelligent than I am. She sees an opportunity where I see hope. I refuse to be used; I refused to be used like a worthless Kleenex. I will not be used and abused.
Anyway I think I have an inability to deal with high tension emotional situations. A friend of mine suggested that I sit back and evaluate the situation. Well I did that last night and I think this will be my course of action:
•Determine her motives
•Ask that she clears most of her things from my house
•Determine if a relationship/friendship is feasible
•Make it clear to her about what I want
I realize right now that I’m a romantic and believe too much in fleeting emotions. That puts me in a situation where I’m easily taken advantage of. I think this is the situation that I’m in right now. Beth seems to be more emotionally intelligent than I am. She sees an opportunity where I see hope. I refuse to be used; I refused to be used like a worthless Kleenex. I will not be used and abused.
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But of course my advice is slightly biased. I'm a very bitter man.
But start from a point of knowledge. Then everything else will fall into place..