A time for Truth
This week i moved into my new Flat. Decent digs I must admit. The cost of moving is huge (80K so far), But I think It's a more long term effort than I earlier envisioned.
More importantly I have begun to realize the Value of relationships and how important expectations need to be met to be happy in any relationship.
As I moved I had the expectation that my girl friend would be by my side helping me in my efforts. But NO!!!!! she was nowhere in sight.... Spectating and managing by SMS...I felt the pain in my heart as it was my expectation that she would be more active in her participation.
I don't know if this is the way a relationship should be...but one thing I'm sure of is that this is not the sort of relationship I need to have. A project manager for a wife/partner...always coming up with useful advice that they don't apply in their own life.....I'm so pissed.
My Ex girlfriend offered to help me today, good gesture...I love her for that...Sue you got a heart of gold. I sometimes wish we never fell apart...I think we could have made a life out in this world...anyway that's another story for another day.
Anyway right now I have to contend with paying my rent deposit by the end of this week (fun times!!!) plus getting some more furniture.
More importantly I have begun to realize the Value of relationships and how important expectations need to be met to be happy in any relationship.
As I moved I had the expectation that my girl friend would be by my side helping me in my efforts. But NO!!!!! she was nowhere in sight.... Spectating and managing by SMS...I felt the pain in my heart as it was my expectation that she would be more active in her participation.
I don't know if this is the way a relationship should be...but one thing I'm sure of is that this is not the sort of relationship I need to have. A project manager for a wife/partner...always coming up with useful advice that they don't apply in their own life.....I'm so pissed.
My Ex girlfriend offered to help me today, good gesture...I love her for that...Sue you got a heart of gold. I sometimes wish we never fell apart...I think we could have made a life out in this world...anyway that's another story for another day.
Anyway right now I have to contend with paying my rent deposit by the end of this week (fun times!!!) plus getting some more furniture.
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