Love or lust
Over the last couple of weeks I've been hanging out with this chick. Real nice, Funny, unpretentious, caring and full of life. Late sato night it became apparent to me (i was in denial) that we both have a deep attraction towards each other. Further she is requesting a clarification on the nature of our relationship.
I have decisions to make now....I've had enough "free Lunches" and the day of reckoning has arrived. I'm not sure what I feel about her, perhaps it's lust or love. I don't know. I want to spend more time with her and get to know her better, hope she'll be patient as I figure out what it is I want....Maybe a future with her....
I can't help but have this vacant feeling but I'm jealous when she speaks to other men. I treat her like she's my mama...I don't know what this is or how I got this close to her....
Comments
As for the recent development in your love life, I am very happy for you, she sounds gorgeous and hope things go well for you both. Now as for whether it is love or lust; I am still trying to figure out whether you are in love or in lust lol but I always find that the best way to discern the difference is by observing how the other person treats you. In the words of Dr. Phil a relationship is where the other person’s self esteem is enhanced and or protected.
While I am on this topic, let me part with a few words of wisdom that will hopefully help you along with your relationship.
I have noticed that men are awfully naive when it comes to understanding the relationship between his girlfriend and her friends, so I am taking it upon myself to educate the masses and without further ado my two golden rules:
Rule number one: Women albeit a minority are unbelievably callous and will deliberately sabotage her friend’s relationship, more often out of jealousy but competitiveness is also a key reason. So if you ever think your mama’s pal is acting inappropriately towards you, tell your girlfriend and leave her to deal with it. Don’t try and be diplomatic and pull the old “don’t pull that stunt again and so as not to hurt x we will keep it to ourselves” trust me it never works and if your girlfriend does find out, rest assured she will not thank you.
Rule number two: The ex, lol..ex’s are like bad pennies, they always turn up just when you have hooked up with someone else. The age old ‘do unto others as you would have them do to you’ is always a good guide plus you need to be honest with your girlfriend about everything.
*giggles* alaa…sorry for the long comment I got carried away, but im not sorry for telling you any of the above because like tax and death theres no avoiding them!
Have a nice weekend.
D-Shy
So how does this work? U post something on ur blog page and hope someone will give you some advice....Or is this like your diary(which men absolutely refuse they keep but always have a way of finding how to put their thoughts down and call it soemthing else(a blog page)
Anyhow I stumbled onto your blog page and I thot hey I know you. I knew you back when u started to really like rap and the word "pathetic".
So about liking this girl.So you like her and it makes you feel good. You dont have to know what is going to happen down the road . That is the beauty of life all... its mystery. But you have to let her know what you are thinking. And how you feel about her even if it is just the fact that you like to hangout with her and you would like to continue getting to know her better. The truth... it is so rare this days dont you think. So tell her. She will understand.
Did you get the celtel deal. I pray it goes well for you. It is always nice to know that someone you knew back when we were young and naive are doing well.
Have a good day.
me.
Finally i have landed on ur blog. en maaaaaan!!!! it feels gud readin a blog that has been set up by someone u jua, wel i cant say that i jua u very well but atleast i see u on a weekly basis wen i come 2 ur offices... which is in Coca cola.... Old mutual buildin en 1st floor if i aint wrong. Its gd 2 see that u are a hip hop guy like i am but i am suprised 2 see alll these issues about u an a certain gal. i wil kam en talk 2 u one of this fine dayz. send me ur meseenger ID so tht i can holla @ u via chat. Send it to gwadumpendakuma@yahoo.com
nwayz i will be checkin r blog regularly en pliz try en update it man, we are in october enthe last time u posted is august. kwani there is nothin goin on with ur life currently. yenyewe u continue livin ur purpose. i hope u get the job in Celtell so that u can follow the likes of moriss newa, and tha rest. c yah