Man Up
A couple of months back during Eric's Birthday Party I met this chick.
She's an angel. She's funny and fun to be around. She's also very pretty....but I think she was sent from hell to torment me for my past sins. Been trying to get with her for a while now.
Over the easter weekend we managed to meet up late in the night(early Monday morning), We had a couple of laughs and drinks at Psys bar...I ended up at her place. I think for the first time in my life I've felt out of my depth with a woman.
I guess it was an "invitation to treat" but your guess is as good as mine because nothing happened. yep...that's right...Nothing happened. I ended up marking out a section of her bed after half attempting to cuddle with her before I realized that my natural instinct would check in gear and I may embarrass myself in case she did not want to go all the way.
Aside from the intense sexual attraction, there's something magnetic that draws me towards her even though she has made it clear that we cannot be an item. Does she like me I think she does...I'm convinced that she is shocked that she can actually care for someone who does not meet her specific description of her ideal man...I have a way of shocking women this way :) Anyway I know if I'm to get her I must man up and be all that she wants (of course without ruining the authentic me).....I need to MAN UP....Grow Bigger muscles(financial Ones) LOL
She's an angel. She's funny and fun to be around. She's also very pretty....but I think she was sent from hell to torment me for my past sins. Been trying to get with her for a while now.
Over the easter weekend we managed to meet up late in the night(early Monday morning), We had a couple of laughs and drinks at Psys bar...I ended up at her place. I think for the first time in my life I've felt out of my depth with a woman.
I guess it was an "invitation to treat" but your guess is as good as mine because nothing happened. yep...that's right...Nothing happened. I ended up marking out a section of her bed after half attempting to cuddle with her before I realized that my natural instinct would check in gear and I may embarrass myself in case she did not want to go all the way.
Aside from the intense sexual attraction, there's something magnetic that draws me towards her even though she has made it clear that we cannot be an item. Does she like me I think she does...I'm convinced that she is shocked that she can actually care for someone who does not meet her specific description of her ideal man...I have a way of shocking women this way :) Anyway I know if I'm to get her I must man up and be all that she wants (of course without ruining the authentic me).....I need to MAN UP....Grow Bigger muscles(financial Ones) LOL
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A huge mistake many guys make is they become too fearful of escalating. Escalating takes action. If you're fearful of rejection in a situation like this then let me assure you of something...
Even if she says "no" you haven't lost any ground with her. You're still in the same place... most guys think that if they hear "no" then they think they will slide all the way back to first base. This isn't true. No simply means not now.
If you're going to me more masculine, decisive, assertive, and attractive make sure it's because you're interested in personal pride and accomplishment, not because you're trying to impress a girl while you're trying to get laid. That's not what being a man is about, and she'll sense that.
Good luck!
~ Robby
(www.fullofhateandreadytodate.com)