I Shit you Not

Yesterday I discovered something interesting about women. It is my position that women inherently avoid any relationship that’s good for them. It’s like running away from a good deal at the used car lot or boutique.

I had a chat with an ex girlfriend a few days back. We eventually ended up talking about the relationship we once shared. It was very touching as she remembered the good things we shared. My question then to her was if everything was so good why didn’t we stay together? She couldn’t answer that question. Later on that evening she sent me a text and I quote:

“U have no idea how happy you make me. That’s the reason why we can’t be together. Coz I can never hurt you”

This comment astounded me. Why would someone run away from something that could potentially be good for them? Isn’t love all about the pursuit of happiness? Why would someone want to hurt someone they care about?

If this is the measure by which I should judge women…then I realize that women must love hurtful relationships. Perhaps it’s genetic; perhaps it’s a learned behavior? I don’t know but it’s really strange that this should be a reason for a relationship to work……it sounds similar to statements such, “we never argue.”

Guess being mister nice guy just doesn’t help in halving a relationship that works.